My Next Act: yes, naaah, yes, naaah

On the run up to my last day of work I was methodical if not downright obsessive. Meet with the financial planner. Check. Give notice at work. Check. Fill out paperwork. Check. Last day. Check. Now tonight I’m down to the only thing left: retirement for reals. My next act.

Technically speaking, Friday was the day I left my job, but I won’t feel I’ve retired until Monday when I finally have no place to be (and no one to feel guilty to). Tomorrow morning is essentially the first day of the rest of my life.

For years I’ve thought about this day. It’s a day when no one owns my time but me. I’ve visualized myself unplugging the alarm, sitting in front of the TV with Tex to watch reruns, and having nowhere to be besides where I am.

I want to roll with each day as it comes, not as scripted by commitments, the need to find a parking place downtown, or earn a paycheck. It will be the first time in a very long time when I haven’t been responsible for a lot of people (and a lot of work). I’ll be responsible only to me.

Am I looking forward to tomorrow? Yes! Will I miss working and all that entails? Naaah.

In addition to my other preparations, I’ve been methodical about planning my next act. Of all the sins I could commit in retirement, being bored or boring ranks right up there. So here’s my things-to-do-so-I-don’t-bore-myself list.

  • Spoil family
  • Blog every day
  • Draw a 125 mile radius around my house, see what’s inside of it
  • Get a USA Rail Pass for 30 days and GO
  • Idaho Hot Springs on a weekday, slice of pie at Trudy’s
  • See family in Portland, Denver, maybe New York
  • Sit by Redfish Lake, Teton Lake, any lake (or river)
  • Listen to waves crash, seagulls squawk at Coast
  • Visit Anne Frank Center, Atlanta, Idaho, Pillars of Rome (Oregon), and anything else that grabs my interest
  • Walk, ride bike
  • Tex and 4-wheeler
  • Chula with friends and the Professor, get out on Rinker Rock Creek Ranch horseback, horse camping
  • Shooting range 1x/wk
  • Graeagle, Reno, Northern and Central California in short term, rest of world over time
  • Bike Hiawatha Trail, ferry across Kootenay Lake
  • Dinner parties, dining out, winetasting
  • Wash woodwork, paint hall, refinish floors
  • Clean office closet
  • Hang photos in office
  • Swim, diving and cooking lessons
  • Fly someplace faraway for lunch and return the same day
  • Live in Spanish-speaking country, continue Spanish classes
  • Sew
  • Tend the garden, pick grapes and can tomatoes, beets, peaches, apricots, cherries, and since I mentioned cherries, I WILL beat the birds to the ripe ones this year
  • Be spontaneous (HA!)

And that’s just my first draft.

Will I miss my work family and friends? Yes, indubitably. Will I have time (or the inclination) to miss the state, the thugs, the stress, and the responsibility? Naaah. I’ll be surprised when they cross my mind.

From tomorrow onward, my primary concern will be accomplishing the things on my list (and waiting for the Professor to retire).

Of all of the bullets on my list, can you guess which will be the hardest? It’s the last one, for sure. But I probably didn’t have to tell you that, did I?

Tomorrow’s the first day of my next act. I’ll let you know how that goes.

#thebigshift #TeriFromOutWest

10 comments

  1. Congrats on the retirement! Have fun enjoying all those things on your “things-to-do-so-I-don’t-bore-myself” list and all those spontaneous things you have yet to discover.

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      1. Well we have for at least six years. I hope you get to come this way. Take the Empire Builder and get off in Libertyville. Maybe stop and see John Moore on the way!

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  2. Congrats Teri! You did it! LOVE reading your blogs and this was a great one! Thank you for being committed to this and to sharing your thoughts and musings. You are a treasure! I look forward to seeing how the next days unfold for you.
    Gwen

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